Night Drive
Setting: Driving home around midnight from vet emergency clinic. Raining. Fog. Window wipers.
Big Dee: You are driving pretty slow.
Me: Yes. I haven’t done a lot of night driving lately – no reason to. And it is raining and misty. And … cataracts.
Big Dee: That is a lot of information.
Me: Sorry – I can’t see perfectly at the moment.
Big Dee: OK.
… window wipers …
Me: How are you feeling?
Big Dee: Tired. Not quite right.
Me: Any pain?
Big Dee: Not as such. Not 100% comfortable.
Me: I’m sorry.
Big Dee: (collar tinkling noise) Good night time window sniffs though.
Me: I’m glad.
… window wipers …
Big Dee: What is a spleen?
Me: Something inside your body that helps make your blood stronger.
Big Dee: Oh. … a good thing then.
Me: Yes. A very good thing.
Big Dee: What is a tumor?
Me: Something that grows inside your body that shouldn’t be there.
Big Dee: Oh … a bad thing then.
Me: Yes, my love. Very bad.
… window wipers …
Big Dee: What will it be like?
Me: I don’t know sweetheart. I don’t know.
…
Big Dee: I think I know.
Me: Tell me.
Big Dee: I think it is like going for a car ride at night. You can’t see too far ahead, only what is in front of you.
Me: OK.
Big Dee: And every once in a while, the car will stop and there will be new sniffs and places to pee.
Me: Sounds reasonable.
Big Dee: And off lead walks to explore.
Me: Oh I’m so glad! You love those.
Big Dee: You won’t be there, though.
Me: No, no I won’t baby. I’m sorry.
Big Dee: I’ll wait for you at one of the stops. You’ll come.
Me: Yes, I will.
Big Dee: And then you can drive the rest of the way.
… window wipers …
Big Dee: You’ve slowed down again. We’ll never get home at this rate.
Me: Sorry. I really can’t see at all now.
10. July 2021 at 7:28 am :
Oh, Liz…. So very sorry. You are right, we are never ready for these times. Big Dee was a very fortunate girl to be loved and given such a wonderful life. My heart goes out to you..