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Musical Nostalgia Click Here To Comment!

I'm having great fun loading music into my new iPod thingie. I find myself drawn to music that already has layers of

memory to it.

For example, Joni Mitchell's live album from the early 70's, Miles of Aisles, has been with me all throughout my 20's, while living, laughing, loving my way through the Niagara Region.  There is geography attached to this album … I also remember it as  the soundtrack to my first drive to the Michigan Women's Music Festival in 1990. This album has seen me through about 10 different apartments, break-ups and earnest coffee klatches in which the impact of post-modern thought on feminism were discussed. Now, it comes with me to Hawaii for a new layer of memory.

Jane Siberry is another nostalgia trip for me. I have specific memories for specific songs, often involving driving … occasionally involving sobbing … or my friend Trix and I obsessively hitting "repeat" on The Taxi Ride when she was getting over a particularly bad heartache.

80's retro stuff reminds me of the crazy L/G (there was no B/T or "queer" at the time) dances and intense crushes I had when I was just coming out. Erasure, Frankie Goes to Hollywood, Pet Shop Boys … yep … all comes back to me. Huey Lewis and the News makes me think of driving along the Welland Canal in St. Catharines, windows down, music blaring, shades on, groovin' … I wanna new drug

I think iPods make it possible for people to re-connect with their nostalgia trips, musically. I'm the kind of person who associates particular visuals or conversations or people with particular songs. When I hear the song, I'm taken back to a special moment in time. Wondering if this happens to others – what songs or artist take you right back? And, where do they take you to?

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Go Cavalier My Malicious Click Here To Comment!

For Lex, in response to her challenge to write a spam-header-inspired post ….

Go … off with you then.

Your cavalier ways have created, in me, malicious ones.

But they are mine. My malicious.

I embrace them as your gift to me.

[Editing to Add: It occurred to me after I posted this that it *could* be mis-interpreted. Let me state, for the record, that there is NO message in a bottle here. This is simply the first set of coherent words that poured out of my head when this spam header crossed my eyeballs today. Perhaps fodder for Jungian analysis, yes. Directive in any way … no. I return you now to regular programming … ]

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Four More Sleeps … 3 comments

Four more sleeps until I leave for Hawaii … and I'm starting to get a sore throat, dammit. Argh!!! Oh well, at least I can be all snivelly somewhere sunny and beautiful. 🙂

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A World of Difference 5 comments

There is a world of difference between the following two sentences:

Do you need a ride to the airport on Saturday morning?

and

I'd like to drive you to the airport on Saturday morning.


It has been a long time since I've heard the second one. Feels very very nice. 🙂

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Gimme 1-2-3-4-5 6 comments

Meme borrowed from Red Pen who borrowed from Bookmole. Just one happy buncha borrowers here …

Name one thing you do everyday.
Give thanks, on some level, for something. For everything. Health. Abundance. Friends. Laughter. Joy. Love.

Name two things you wish you could learn.
To play one musical instrument (either guitar or piano) effortlessly and joyfully.

To speak French well. I'd settle for competently.

Name three things that remind you of your childhood.
The smell of fresh mown hay or grass.

The way light slants in my window at the end of the day – reminds me of our west-facing windows and the late-day sun filtering through trees.

Thunderstorms.

Name four things you love to eat but rarely do.

(This speaks to my level of self-restraint insofar as if I love to eat something, I just eat it. So I'm struggling with the "rarely" part …)

Eggplant sandwich from Future Bakery @ St. Lawrence Market

Szechuan Beef (deep fried, essentially candied, beef strips in a spicy glaze …dear god …)

Scallops, cooked just so

Those deep fried onion bits that you buy to use as toppings on salads. I discovered that in Denmark these are offered to top hot dogs from street vendors and they are yummy. But, I'm not in Denmark all that often, so I guess that counts as "rarely".

Name five things that make you feel good.
An excellent meal with good friends

A smile, given or received

A hug, given or received

Comments on my blog postings

Music, whether I'm listening or playing

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QotD: I’m Good. 3 comments

What are five things you're good at?
Submitted by HapaLove.

I wanted to get all artsy with this and just give cryptic one word answers. But … I'm such a Libra. Every time I wrote something down, I realized that it was something I've also failed miserably at. I think failure is a necessary backdrop to "being good" at something. One of my favourite sayings is this:

If you haven't failed at something recently, you are not doing enough.

So, with that in mind, here is my list of five things I'm good at, but also am working hard to improve.

  1. Listening (I don't mean "hearing"- I can't help that. I mean "listening".)
  2. Keeping my mouth shut
  3. NOT keeping my mouth shut
  4. Cooking
  5. Letting things go / keeping things in perspective

I'm an intermittently decent hack on the guitar sometimes, too. 🙂

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QotD: Make Me A Match Click Here To Comment!

Have you ever played matchmaker?  How did it go?

No … but I was set up on a blind date a few weeks ago. I'm usually quite hesitant about such things but I figured I'd give it the old college try so to speak. For some inexplicable reason, six grinning hockey players just "happened" to arrive at the pub where we were finishing dinner that night. Hm.

That was three and a half weeks ago.

Let's just say that the two of us owe our mutual friend a beer (at least). She has very good instincts. We are having a lovely time and are no longer quite so "blind", at least with regard to each other.

My friends, as a group, are concerned with the following questions:

  • Is she in the same city?
  • Was she born sometime before disco?
  • Gainfully employed?
  • Smart, aware and funny?
  • Single? No … really … is-she-single, Venus?
  • Cute?

Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes, YES and YES.  I think she likes spicy food, too. We'll find out tonight.

I do recommend matchmaking as an alternative to speed dating, online matches and so on. But I've had some success there, too. Not quite like this, though. Stay tuned … 🙂

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Jane’s Turn Click Here To Comment!

I'm not doing what I'm supposed to be doing.

For just a few more moments, let me indulge myself before I get to the "shoulds" in my life.

You see, I bought a VEI (very expensive iPod) the other day and now I'm loading my entire music collection on it. Yup – that wall of CDs is going to fit into this relatively tiny little box. Wow. Tonight it is Jane's turn.

Jane and I go way back. Of course, she did that name change thing and I'm a bit unsure about that. She'll always be  Jane to me … she is so entrenched in me that it doesn't matter what she does next.


A while back, there was a Vox QoTD about what kind of music you listen to when you are blue. I noticed some respondants dividing their responses into "music that lifts the mood and gets you out of the funk" and "music that lets you wallow in the delicious funkiness". For me, Jane can do both, but she is especially good at the former. There are Jane songs that can, with only a few notes or words, lift me straight out of whatever dark place I might be in.

There are so many gems on her first album, Jane Siberry (1981). I think she was in her mid-20's and this was a self-produced indie effort. Been down memory lane quite a bit with this tonight. Here is a song for all those who fancy themselves writers here … 🙂

Three years later came No Borders Here. How can anyone listen to Symmetry and not decide that the world is a

pretty special place?  (… you can't chop down a sym-me-tree … you can't chop down a sym-me-tree …) I know that Mimi On The Beach is a popular choice from this album and it is a terrific song. I'm probably the only person in the world who has a huge soft spot for the quirky and indecipherable Map of the World (Part I). It takes me right back to summers in undergrad days, lying back on the grass under a blue sky, imagining the possibilities.

Speckless Sky was the album that really launched me into Jane. After hearing this album (originally purchased in vinyl in the mid-80's), I went back and found the first two. How can one POSSIBLY be in a bad mood after hearing One More Colour?!? Should anyone require this information in the future, if I'm in a crabby mood, just the first few notes of Map of the World (Part II) will perk me right up.


For wallowing, there is the world's most exquisite break-up song … The Taxi Ride.

I really have to leave it there, I think, and get to my "shoulds". And that is only the first three albums … there is so much more … do stay tuned …

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Vox Hunt: Overdubbed Click Here To Comment!

Audio: If you could sing like anyone, living or dead, who would you choose to sound like?  Share a song of theirs.
Submitted by aa.

Well, ok.

I would sound like a cross between Serena Ryder (click on the mp3 player at that site for samples) and the one on the right (stage left) below.

Is that possible, or does that just twist your brain all the wrong ways?

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One Upon A Time, In A Land Far Away … 2 comments

I can't describe what this video does to me. It excites me, frustrates me, motivates me, and generally makes me want to bang my head on my desk repeatedly.

Once upon a time, there were dreams at my current job that we would be on the cutting edge of this kind of work. Not in a theoretical or developmental sense, but in a sense that we would be teaching qualified students how to leap onto these innovations, to surf them, mash them, to recognize new and creative business opportunities within them.

Instead, we struggle with whether or not our students understand us well enough to keep up with the deeply stripped down curriculum we are now working with. If we can get past the language problems, my particular area of focus seems to be getting them to plan projects and work coherently within cross-functional (cross-dysfunctional?) teams. Sometimes I tell them, "Look – I don't care if all you produce is one page of properly structured HTML … if, as a TEAM, you have accurately analyzed and assessed the client's problem, planned the project, managed the work breakdown structure throughout, and delivered on time and on budget … then you have achieved something." A recent post by Patti addresses why this particular set of skills is valuable.

Have our graduates embraced Web 2.0? No. Just don't ask them about it, please. I spent a chunk of yesterday afternoon demonstrating to a student that, yes, you can edit e-mails in g-mail. You don't have to re-type them. This is a graduate student, about to finish his course in two months. One of the complete misconceptions that is held by our administration is that "all the young people, they know all this stuff already". They don't … they really really don't.

Our institution has a long-historic fear of the vision that was present in this programme 7-8 years ago. That technology would revolutionize everything about how we do business together as human beings on this planet. This is not recognized as proper or useful curriculum, or it hasn't been for the entire time that we have fought for it. And, trust me, we have fought valiantly. One of the things I cover when I teach project management is that in order for any internal initiative to succeed, it requires top management support, even if that support comes in the form of a very loose leash.  Somehow, in trying to shoehorn the vision into a technology-resistant institution, we've lost our way.  We've been mis-marketed, mis-handled and mis-understood.

In the real world, there is a marriage between form and content as separate but enmeshed entities. This takes some critical thinking to envision and some technical savvy to adapt how this marriage can be leveraged into a revenue-generating opportunity. If we were to actually be doing this, sticking to what would have been the natural evolution of this curriculum, our graduates would not have a clear list of jobs that such a person could get. Perhaps they would start out as a web analyst or project manager or database administrator. However, strictly speaking, such graduates would create their own roles, either intrapreneurially within a larger organization, or by starting their own enterprises. This lack of direct correlation simply does not compute in the world of institutionalized curriculum. A foreign concept, that powerful marriage of critical thinking and technical skills.

We are so far away from delivering this right now, I can barely see the shore.

(For those in the know, I am coming dangerously close to saying I'm missing the bizarre but oddly successful influence of Georgette, our very own butterfly-in-a-hurricane.  I'm not – but, in truth, she did have this vision and she fought hard for it, even though her personal style made me want to slit my wrists.)

I'm hoping that we can get some momentum under new leadership. It is hard to get motivated when we've been let down so often. I hope, in 18 months, I can post a much happier, less cynical, summary of how I earn my keep and make a contribution to the welfare of the world. Stay tuned … 

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